Engagement Ring Superstitions
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The use of engagement rings was actually formalized in 860 AD by Pope Nicholas I. In the 6th century, it was illegal for a man to “steal” his future wife from her family hence requiring the “wed”, a sealed agreement between groom and the bride’s father that a marriage would take place. But again, this did not involve any ring. In fact in some cultures, the man would give a pair of gloves to his beloved. If she wore them on church on Sunday, it signified acceptance of his marriage proposal. In barbaric times, kidnapping a woman with the aid of his men or warrior comrades was man’s way to secure his future wife, a literal illustration of fighting for one’s love. Later on, this marriage by capture turned into marriage by purchase, wherein the bride-to-be was bartered for land, social standing, or political alliances. The ring served as the security deposit. Perhaps it is because of such value placed on the woman’s acceptance of a marriage proposal that the ring marking such acceptance should also be of high value. But actually, it was Pope Nicholas I who insisted that it should be gold, to signify the man’s financial sacrifice. |
| Over the years, engagement rings were made of rubies, diamonds, and other gemstones (usually, the woman’s birthstone). Diamonds, introduced in the 15th century by the Venetians, are the most popular until today. It is believed that the marriage would be as strong and enduring as the diamond. The lights reflected from it are said to ward off evil spirits jealous of the couple’s love and happiness; its purity and brilliance believed to be made from the flames of love.
Another reason why the engagement ring has to be highly valuable is perhaps due to the belief that to lose it is bad luck. To remove it, or even have it altered, is also ominous. If a woman lets another woman try her wedding ring, the latter will steal the former’s fianc? away. Whether for superstitious, scientific, or cultural reasons, the quality and manner of presenting the engagement ring is in itself a personal milestone and hence, should be celebrated and given much value. |
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